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I’m not here! I’m somewhere else! Well, what I mean is that my thumbs are having a rest from social media and are currently enjoying a holiday from thumb-typing, away from Twitter and Facebook and all the other forms of instant 24-hour communication. They’ve been away from blogging too for a few weeks, so this is their first little bit of typing exercise for a while!

And they’ve really loved having a break – they’re happy thumbs!

I’ve used the time away to relax and to edit my latest book, called Bouncing Back …which is published at the end of August. It’s my fifth book and a milestone for me because when I started writing I was told firmly that you can really call yourself a writer once you have five books in print!

If you cut me in half (please don’t though) it says ‘writer’ all the way down the middle and so I find it easy to be absorbed in books and tweets. Social media is great. It’s a route to market, a way to find friends, a provider of fun conversations and a platform for people to achieve ambitions and put themselves out into the world. And it can intrude on family time, be a nagging distraction and soak up time when you have to concentrate on meeting work deadlines.

If we never take a break, then we risk becoming stale and getting caught in repetitive conversations, or forgetting that there is life beyond social media apps.

So, give your thumbs some time off this Summer and take a break for a few days from social media platforms. Instead of tweeting, my thumbs have been building sand castles on the beach and sunbathing. Life has felt simpler and less distracting too!

Breaks are good, so when are you having yours?

PS. My first book is being re-printed now, which is great news! If you know someone who has been (or is being) bullied at work then check out the book; My Boss is a Bastard. Be warned though, it’s full of swearing. I wrote it 10 years ago and am very chuffed to see it being reprinted! (On no account should you buy 200 copies from Amazon and leave them in your manager’s office…haha!)

I love what I do, partly because I’m a great coach (and there’s nothing wrong in being proud of yourself) and mainly because I work with lovely, interesting, talented people. They don’t think they are though to begin with …and happily they tend to find that out they really are great after we’ve spent some time together.

One of the reasons for mentioning this is that if we want to get a job we can make a good start by reminding ourselves that we’re special. We have skills, talents, a lovely smile, a strong work ethic, a willingness to learn …and so on. We can decide what’s good about us and once we have the secret smile in place we’re in a good position to make progress.

If we can’t sell ourselves to ourself how can we be expected to sell ourselves to other people?

Many people will read this and think ‘Pah! Easy for you to say!’ …they instantly make out that they’re not good enough!

So I say: ‘Pah! What nonsense! The world needs us all! Stop putting bricks in your path and instead take time to allow yourself to be proud!’

That’s the message for this week …take time to stop rushing about and sit back and allow yourself to be proud of who you are what you do well.

Make time and think about it!

Oh and if you were wondering what happened last week (as there was no blog) I was away at an event and instead of cramming in a quick blog post I used the time to sit back and think about what I am good at!

I’m a great Career Turnaround specialist. If you know someone who needs to make a change, reduce stress, increase confidence and generally improve their performance then do please put us in touch. I’m great …and they will be too!

Have fun!